Wednesday, July 24, 2013

FPI, Benar-benar Pembela Islam atau Malah Merusak Nama Baik Islam?!

ini adalah kali pertamanya saya menulis tentang hal yang seperti ini, saya tidak ingin menyalahkan atau menghakimi siapapun. saya lebih ingin mengeluarkan unek-unek atau pendapat saya tentang masalah yang beberapa minggu ini selalu ada didalam berita setiap stasiun televisi.
ini bukan untuk kali pertama terjadi, karena hampir disetiap bulan Ramadhan yaitu bulan suci bagi umat yang beragama islam. selalu saja ada berita ditelevisi yang menyangkut tentang FPI, melakukan tindakan brutal, anarkis dan sweeping yang semua orang pasti akan setuju jika itu bukanlah perbuatan yang manusiawi.
ini bukan hal yang mengejutkan tapi apa kita tidak  merasa kasihan pada orang-orang yang mungkin bisa disebut korban??
FPI (Front Pembela Islam) adalah sebuah kelompok ormas yang menyatakan dirinya sebagai pembela agama Islam dan mungkin semua rakyat Indonesia sudah tidak asing lagi dan mengetahui sepak terjang FPI baik dari media sosial, koran, radio dan berita.
membela agama adalah perbuatan yang sangat mulia dan Allah.SWT serta Rasul.Nya sangat menyukai hambanya yang berjihad untuk membela agama yang sangat kita cintai.
Dan juga, Islam adalah agama yang sangat sempurna, ajarannya sangat komprehensif yang mencakup semua aspek kehidupan. tapi, yang menjadi pertanyaan adalah apa tindakan yang dilakukan oleh anggota FPI tersebut disukai oleh Allah.SWT, Rasul dan para sahabat Rasul?
apakah agama Islam mengajarkan dakwah yang seperti FPI lakukan? Bukankah hal tersebut tidak lebih buruk seperti orang-orang yang FPI sweeping, karena mereka melakukan tindakan anarkis dan brutal bahkan menurut saya tidak manusiawi.
menurut pemikiran saya, anggota FPI pasti sangat tahu tentang agama dan batasan-batasan yang diatur didalam Al-Qur'an, Hadist dan sebagainya. dan pasti ada cara lain yang bisa dilakukan tanpa harus bertindak brutal dan anarkis. bukankah didalam Al-Qur'an Allah.SWT berfirman dalam Surat An-Nahl: 125 yang berbunyi : "Ajaklah ke jalan Tuhanmu dengan cara yang hikmah (kata-kata baik), dan contoh-contoh perilaku yang baik, dan jikalau harus berdebat maka debatlah dengan cara yang paling tepat"
apa cara yang dilakukan oleh FPI adalah cara yang paling baik? bahkan yang terbaik yang diajarkan?
sama seperti yang ditulis oleh Mohammad Ichsan dalam tulisannya FPI: Front Pemfitnah Islam?
  1. Mereka mengejar seluruh orang-orang yang mereka anggap salah tanpa menanyakan terlebih dahulu, mereka pukuli, mereka siram dengan minuman keras yang mereka jual, mereka menghancurkan rumah. FPI adalah orang-orang yang mengerti atau tahu bahwa didalam Islam diajarkan bahwa minuman keras itu haram hukumnya? Atau bahkan lebih dalam lagi, apakah pasti bahwa yang mereka ‘serang’ itu semuanya muslim? Kebanyakan kita menghukumi seseorang tanpa asas praduga tak bersalah hingga hilang nurani kita dan akal menjadi buta dan hanya nafsu yang dikedepankan.
  2. Apakah itu cara dakwah yang rasul lakukan? Sedangkan ada seorang badui arab yang buang air kecil dimasjid kemudian para sahabat marah dan akan menghentikannya namun rasul menahan para sahabat tersebut lalu berkata ia (badui itu) belum tahu tentang masjid. Hasilnya, sang badui arab masuk islam. Saya pun mengerti bahwa hadits mengenai merubah kemungkaran dengan tangan, lisan dan hati juga hadits yang shahih. Namun bukan berarti saya setuju dengan pengertian tangan dihadits tersebut dengan cara yang diimplementasikan oleh FPI. Silakan lihat hadits kisah badui ini dan ayat yang saya sampaikan diawal tadi sebagai bukti.
  3. Apakah dengan begitu memberantas habis kemaksiatan? Setiap generasi akan terus menghasilkan kebodohan-kebodohan maksiat ini jikalau tak diberantas dengan tepat dan sabar. Bukankah cara instan banyak berhasil dengan hasil yang instan pula? Bukankah Allah telah perintahkan kita dalam surat yang sering sekali kita baca karna pendeknya surat tersebut, Al-Ashr? Allah berfirman: ‘Saling nasihat menasihati dalam kebenaran dan saling nasihat menasihati dalam kesabaran’. Maka mengajari orang-orang tersebut (para peminum) dengan benar dan sabar adalah cara yang tepat hingga mereka itu sendiri yang menasihati anak keturunan mereka agar menjauh dari kemaksiatan yang telah mereka lakukan. Jika Anda Tanya ‘Berhasilkah?’ Maka saya tanya kembali, ‘Percayakah dengan dakwah rasul?’
FPI dibentuk pasti untuk sebuah tujuan yang baik dan mulia karena tidak ada suatu hal pun yang dibentuk untuk menjelek-jelekan atau merusak kewibawaan, apa lagi menyangkut agama dan sebuah keyakinan umat.
kegiatan menasehati, mengajak kejalan yang baik adalah tugas setiap hamba Allah.SWT yang ada dibumi ini. tapi, marilah pakai cara yang lebih manusiawi, lebih terhormat, lebih beradap! tidak melakukannya dengan kekerasan, tindakan brutal, anarkis serta tindakan lainnya yang didalam Al-Qur'an dan Hadist pun TIDAK diajarkan.
tapi, bukan ingin memungkiri jika FPI juga melakukan kebaikan-kebaikan seperti contohnya menolong korban gempa padang. tapi, organisasi, ormas, kelompok dan lain-lainnya juga dapat melakukan kebaikan-kebaikan seperti itu tanpa melakukan tindakan brutal, anarkis yang tidak manusiawi.
yang menjadi pertanyaan sekarang adalah:
apakah keberadaan FPI benar-benar pembela Islam atau malah merusak nama baik Islam?!

Tuesday, July 23, 2013

Led apple - ギミ・君・LOVE(Gimme kimi love)

Finally!!! new MV Ledapple debuted Japan out!! soo excited hyaaaaaaaa~
let's seee :D


Japanese :
帰りたい 帰れない・・・


I Miss You!
ギミギミ 君のLOVE
君 君 君だけしか
この胸の隙間は 埋められないや


One More!
ギリギリ 君の愛をもう一度だけ
確認したくないけど
ジャジャ ジャジャン ジャーン


出会ったあの日から 運命を感じた
柄にもなく本気だった
すれ違ってたこと 気づけないままに
It's true re more(?) Can't stop loveing you

帰りたい 帰れない
時はもう巻き戻せない
意地なんて張らずに抱き合えばよかった
バラバラ もうバラバラ

I Miss You!
ギミギミ 君のLOVE
君 君 君だけしか
この胸の隙間は 埋められないや

One More!
ギリギリ 君の愛をもう一度だけ
確認したくないけど
ジャジャ ジャジャン ジャーン


Yeah!! Yeah!!
どんなに恋を重ねても Beginner
初めての失恋のように Break it out
人は過ちを繰り返しながら強くなるの 強くなれるの
忘れらんない あの時のSmile
君を信じ Cry 辛い暗い Life
君を失って今更 愛の意味に気づき始めたんだ

帰りたい 帰れない
時はもう巻き戻せない
意地なんて張らずに抱き合えばよかった
バラバラ もうバラバラ

I Miss You!
ギミギミ 君のLOVE
君 君 君だけしか
僕の胸の隙間は 埋められないや

One More!
ギリギリ 君の愛をもう一度だけ
確認したくないけど
ジャジャ ジャジャン ジャーン


I Miss You!
ギミギミ 君のLOVE
君 君 君だけしか
僕の胸の隙間は 埋められないや

One More!
ギリギリ 君は二度と戻らないなら
思い出にできるまで
ジャジャ ジャジャン ジャーン


どうしようもない 前に進めない
このままじゃ Cry 辛い暗い Life
君を失って今更 愛の意味を求め始めたんだ

One More!
ギリギリ 君は二度と戻らないなら
思い出にできるまで
ジャジャ ジャジャン ジャーン

Romanization :

Kaeritai kaerenai

I Miss You!
Gimigimi kimi no LOVE
Kimi kimi kimi dake shika
Kono mune no sukima wa ume rarenai ya

One More!
Girigiri kimi no ai o mou ichido dake
Kakunin shitakunaikedo
Jaja jajan jān

Deatta ano hi kara unmei o kanjita
Gara ni mo naku honkidatta
Surechigatteta koto kidzukenai mama ni
It's tsurū re moa ( ? ) Can't stop loving you

Kaeritai kaerenai
Toki wa mou maki modosenai
Iji nante harazu ni dakiaeba yokatta
Barabara mou barabara

I Miss You!
Gimigimi kimi no LOVE
Kimi kimi kimi dake shika
Kono mune no sukima wa ume rarenai ya

One More!
Girigiri kimi no ai o mou ichido dake
Kakunin shitakunaikedo
Jaja jajan jān

Yeah! ! Yeah! !
Don'nani koi o kasanete mo Beginner
Hajimete no shitsuren no you ni Break it out
Hito wa ayamachi o kurikaeshinagara tsuyoku naru no tsuyoku nareru no
Wasure ran nai ano toki no Smile
Kimi o shinji Cry tsurai kurai Life
Kimi o ushinatte imasara ai no imi ni kidzuki hajimeta nda

Kaeritai kaerenai
Toki wa mou maki modosenai
Iji nante harazu ni dakiaeba yokatta
Barabara mou barabara

I Miss You!
Gimigimi kimi no LOVE
Kimi kimi kimi dake shika
Boku no mune no sukima wa ume rarenai ya

One More!
Girigiri kimi no ai o mou ichido dake
Kakunin shitakunaikedo
Jaja jajan jān

I Miss You!
Gimigimi kimi no LOVE
Kimi kimi kimi dake shika
Boku no mune no sukima wa ume rarenai ya

One More!
Girigiri kimi wa nidoto modoranainara
Omoide ni dekiru made
Jaja jajan jān

Dou shiyou mo nai mae ni susumenai
Kono mama ja Cry tsurai kurai Life
Kimi o ushinatte imasara ai no imi o motome hajimeta nda

One More!
Girigiri kimi wa nidoto modoranainara
Omoide ni dekiru made
Jaja jajan jān

Friday, July 19, 2013

ERIC NAM Profile & Fact's

Hello everyone!!! i'm back again... :)
how are you??!! let's talking about someone new :D
He really cute, handsome and amazing too.. kkk~  if u ever watch AfterSchool Club on Arirang..
You can see 2 males korean handsome(?) talking so amazing with english :D
aaah~ so many speak.. haha let's see who's hee :D



  • Birth Name : Eric Nam (에릭남)
  • Korean Name : Nam Yoon-do (남윤도)
  • Birt Place    : Atlanta, Georgia, United States.
  • Birthday      : November 17, 1988 (24)
  • Height         : 175cm
  • Weight        : 64kg
  • Blood Type : -
  • Year active : 2011 - present
  • Eduacation : Studied Bachelor of International Studies at Boston College
  • Specialities : Piano, Cello
  • Twitter       : https://twitter.com/ericnamofficial
  • Facebook  :http://www.facebook.com/ericnamofficial
  • Instagram   : https://instagram.com/realericnam
  • Labels         : B2M Entertaiment

Facts : 

  1. He graduated from The Lovett School in 2007 where he played soccer and played in the orchestra.
  2. He also studied in Beijing for a year.
  3. He can speak Korean, English, Spanish, Chinese, and is currently learning Japanese.
  4. He became a part of the Atlanta Boy Choir and toured in Italy where he got to sing for mass at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome, when he younger.
  5. Before making it to the K-Pop industry, He was already making cover songs and posting them on YouTube.
  6. He also once auditioned in SM Entertainment when he was in high school.
  7. JYP representative called him after watching his cover songs and suggested that he should go to a JYP audition in New York but, he decided not to audition because during that time, he still had to focus on his studies.

[Exclusive] Interview with Eric Nam: The Unexpected K-Pop Artist By Soompi.com 

Eric Nam, following his 5th place finish on MBC’s “Star Audition: Birth of a Great Star” Season 2, is the newest member of the B2M Entertainment family, which includes popular artists such as Lee Hyori, SPICA, and SS501members Kim Kyu Jong and Heo Young Sang. He is currently promoting his first mini-album “Cloud 9,” which dropped on January 23rd, including the title track “Heaven’s Door.”
I was introduced to Eric through my friend Christine, an OG Soompier and the producer of Kollaboration, the nationwide talent competition that empowers Asian-Americans through entertainment. She got to know him when he directed the first-ever Kollaboration show in Boston. When I heard that Eric was also an old-school Soompier, I thought of presenting him as a fan, like the rest of us, who managed to bring his dreams of becoming a K-Pop artist to life. As we exchanged emails over the days leading up to his debut, I found that while this is all true, there was a surprising depth and breadth to his life experience that was both intriguing and refreshing.
Eric For Hazzy's
With the constant flow of new idol groups and singers debuting each week, it could be easy to overlook him as just another pretty face. Take another look, and you’ll find the most unexpected resume for a K-Pop artist. His extensive time abroad helping the underprivileged all over Latin America and India makes him seem more fit for the Peace Corps than the Music Bank stage. His education and work experience suits the job at the prestigious consulting firm he left behind. Instead, we meet him as the rookie singer who made his first stage appearance as a solo K-Pop artist just a few hours ago as I work on this interview. 
Right off the bat, I really liked the importance he put on connecting with fans outside of Korea in their own language, which luckily for us is English, as well as Spanish for our Soompi Spanish friends. In this in-depth interview, Eric opens up about his days as a Soompier, his path from uploading a YouTube video to getting signed at B2M, his feelings just days before his debut, and more.
Let’s start with some basic information. Where are you from, and how old are you?
Born and raised in Atlanta, Georgia. Went to school in Boston. I am 24 in the States (26 in Korea). Born in ’88.  I guess I’m considered older in this industry, especially to be debuting just now, but… I think age is just a number! Haha
What’s your musical background? How did you get exposed to music?
I grew up singing… always, always singing. I would memorize cassette tapes of Korean folk songs from beginning to end and was always singing in church. So I kind of just grew up with it. I also started the piano when I was 4, switched to the cello when I was about 9, and just kept singing on the side. The one time I did organized singing was with the Atlanta Boy Choir, which was pretty cool because we went on tour in Italy and I got to sing for mass at St. Peter’s Basilica in Rome. Otherwise, singing was always on my own. In my later years of high school I started uploading YouTube videos for constructive criticism and continued throughout college. It was also my only real outlet to perform.
When did you first get interested in K-Pop?
I first started listening to what’s commonly known as K-Pop in middle school. I started off listening to some H.O.T., Fin.K.L., S.E.S. and then the following generation of musicians, Shinhwa, god, BoA, Fly to the Sky, etc. I would rent VHS (video cassettes… yeah remember those?) every week to watch shows like Music Bank, Inkigayo, Music Core, etc. I took a few years away from K-Pop and became re-interested in the genre around 2009/2010 while I was studying abroad in Beijing for a year. I started to see the impact that Hallyu was having in Chinese popular culture and started to follow groups like Girls’ Generation, Wonder Girls, Big Bang, 2NE1, 2PM, 2AM, etc.
Throughout, I’ve always tried to listen to other genres of music, that’s weren’t always necessarily considered “K-Pop” – such as Brown Eyes, Brown Eyed Soul, Gummy, Wheesung, 4Men, etc.
Who were your first K-Pop crushes and idols?
I think my first ever kpop crushes were BoA and Lee Hyori (is it awkward that I’m in her company?) I remember seeing both of them and thinking WOW (hahaha). In terms of performance, my family and I used to watch Shinhwa a lot and my brothers and I would try to mimic their dance moves and songs!
Who are your favorite non-K-Pop artists?
Bruno Mars, Adele, John Legend, John Mayer, Maroon 5, Marc Broussard, Alicia Keys, guilty pleasure – Taylor Swift (though she should really do something about all her heartbreak).
In K-Pop, I’m a big fan of 2NE1 and Big Bang, my mentor Lee Seung Hwan, Urban Zakapa, Naul, Ra.D, Ailee, the list goes on and on and on.
Eric with one of his American music idols, Brian McKnight
You mentioned that you used to be an active Soompier. How old were you when you were a Soompier, and how serious were you at that point about trying to “make it” in Korea?
I was probably 13 when I first started going on Soompi. For me, Soompi was very much about connecting to other Korean-Americans and people who were interested in Korean/Asian culture. When growing up in Atlanta, there weren’t as many Korean-Americans as there are now. I also went to a predominantly white school, so for a while it was actually really difficult for me to relate to peers and I think Soompi played a role in filling that gap. [Soomp's sidenoteI've heard stories like this so many times, but it always feels good to know that the Soompi community actually makes a difference in people's lives *sniff*] At a certain point, after a lot of pumping myself up, I developed the courage to upload some of my own music. I still remember being so incredibly nervous, because it was the first time that I was presenting myself to people and just putting myself out there for people to respond to. 
Honestly, for me, becoming a singer was always just a dream. I wanted to be a singer so bad and I wanted to audition for companies, but I never had the opportunity. YouTube and technology weren’t the way they are today, and even K-Pop wasn’t the huge cultural entity that it is now. In addition, my parents were also very much against me becoming a musician or a singer, so I always felt nervous and maybe even a bit guilty about trying to pursue music behind their backs.
I remember in high school, SM (Entertainment) had come to Atlanta for auditions, I hadn’t known until an hour before the audition, so I went in unprepared and extremely nervous, and obviously didn’t make it (hehehe). For me, I think my mentality was, I’ll keep uploading YouTube videos and if people like what they see maybe there’ll be a chance for me to audition or fate will take me somewhere, and in a way, that’s kind of what happened. There were definitely some really cool things that came up through YouTube.
At college graduation, I remember thinking, “Well, I guess there’s not much of a chance for me to be a singer anymore…” because I guess I had assumed college would be the last time I had enough “me time” and freedom to try to pursue it. But God always has other plans!
Backstage during MBC Star Audition with Actress Psrk Shin Hye and his mentor, Lee Seung Hwan
What motivated you to take the next step to audition for MBC’s Star Audition program? What was that whole process like?
I was selected to audition through the YouTube rounds. I never ever expected to make it. Honestly, I hadn’t even remembered that I had submitted, so when they contacted me, I thought it was a joke! When I was contacted, I was in India doing some non-profit work, having asked for a deferred start date at my “real” job in management consulting. It was really just a surreal experience. I kept making it through the rounds and I was being coached and mentored by some of Korean music’s biggest names and legends. It was definitely really hard as well. I remember just not being happy at parts of the show because of the toll that the stress and cultural differences take on you both physically and mentally. So, I’m definitely thankful, and I don’t have any regrets, but yeah, it was rough at points!
Did you already have a fan base before you made it on the show (from YouTube, etc.)?
I had a small and humble one from YouTube. Probably more of my fans were just friends and family.
:)
How good was your Korean when you first went to Korea?
I had grown up speaking some Korean, I guess Konglish would be the best way to describe it. It definitely wasn’t the best, but I think some people actually thought it was a “cute” that I couldn’t speak too well (haha). It’s gotten better since when I first arrived, but it’s something that I still have to consciously work on.
How did you feel when you came in 5th place?
Honestly, I was relieved. The show had been going on for like 8 to 9 months and I was excited that I would be done with the constant stress. Obviously, there’s always disappointment as well, but I think it was a well-balanced, bittersweet moment. I knew that companies had called from early on while I was on the show, so I always thought that I would have a shot with signing, but yeah, I dropped a bit earlier than I had hoped and expected, so I was a bit concerned. 
What I realized and kind of taught myself was that every single impression matters and counts. Every chance that you get to perform, or film a short segment, or present yourself to anyone, in any way, even if it’s just a meeting, is very important. First impressions go a long way and in the world of entertainment, you’re ALWAYS being watched, so it’s best to always put your best foot forward.
Eric's project group "Namaste" from MBC Star Audition
How soon after that did you actually get signed? What steps did you take to reach that point?
So the show ended in early April (2012), and I ended up signing in September. It was probably one of the hardest and most stressful experiences I’ve been through.
Following the conclusion of the show, I still had my consulting job waiting for me in New York, so first and foremost, I needed to determine if I was, in fact, going to pursue the career of a musician and entertainer. Having seen the industry for about 9 months, there were definitely things that I liked and didn’t like about being in it, as well as difficulties that I had to take into consideration, such as cultural, social, and political things that were hard for me to digest as an American. Also, singing and music was something that I had always done because I loved music and loved singing, but at a certain point, it was no longer FUN. I didn’t enjoy it anymore. It had become a job. So, I was really concerned about making the RIGHT choice.
I went home to the States and I ended up visiting and meeting with a ton of people who I respect – mentors, advisors, and people who are already in the entertainment / K-Pop industry. At the end of six weeks, after a lot of meetings, a lot of reflection, and prayer, I ended up deciding that I did want to pursue this opportunity. I went back to Korea in June and started meeting more companies, and also released a digital single with a project group named “Namaste” through my mentor’s label from MBC Star Audition. The single was titled “Blue Night in Jeju Island,” and the members were my dongsaengs from my mentee group from the show. We did promotions for that through late July and August and I just kept meeting with companies all throughout that time. In the end, I chose B2M and now they’re my new family!
This is NOT to say that the process was easy. It was extremely stressful in that I was meeting with CEOs and VPs on a regular basis of some of Korea’s biggest entertainment companies and record labels. My Korean wasn’t the best and I was representing myself as an artist and a human being, so talking about specifics, contracts, and details was hard. Further, simply deciding which company to go to was really hard because I think every company has its pros and cons and it’s about finding what the best FIT is – just like college or any other job.
Shooting a music video
As a signed artist, what has the process been like? How long have you been in training and what sort of things have you been trained in?
So, my label didn’t sign me as a trainee, but as a new artist, so unlike most trainees, I didn’t have to go through the typical training processes that most people hear of when they think K-Pop. But I’ve been preparing for this album and just getting myself in better place mentally and physically since I signed my contract in September until now. I have been doing some basic dance training, cause I’m really bad, and I think I need to know at least some stuff! (haha) Also been doing Japanese lessons and working out on a daily basis.
How are you feeling just a few days before your debut?
I’m really excited. I’m nervous. But more than anything, I’m thankful. I’m so grateful and blessed that I have this opportunity to pursue and live out what I had previously only considered to be a dream. So, I really just want to do my best, and hopefully be able to share some really good music and performances with my fans who have been patiently, patiently waiting since the end of the show. Also just so thankful to my family and friends who have been incredibly supportive throughout the process.
What happens once you debut? Is it performance, interview, radio show, talk show, etc. back-to-back?
So I guess the industry considers the release of your album/single as your debut. I’ve been doing interviews every day for about the past week and will probably continue to do so for the next few days. Then I’ll be on those music shows such as Music Core, Inkigayo, etc. Most likely I’ll be on radio, some talk shows, etc. It really depends on how the album does, as well as the direction that my company wants to take in terms of promoting my album.
Celebrating the one year anniversary of his fan cafe
Are you worried about appearing on the various talk shows and variety shows?
YES! Absolutely concerned. Frankly because my Korean isn’t the best. I have a hard time catching on to a lot abbreviated terms and cool slang that everybody seems to use! And while my essentials are solid, I don’t feel comfortable enough -YET!- to be perfect on air. So yeah, I am a little bit concerned. Also, I’ve found that because my Korean isn’t native, I often end up frustrated that I can’t completely, perfectly express who I am, particularly things such as humor.
You’d mentioned you spent time in Latin America? For how long? How did you learn Spanish?
I’ve spent a good amount of time in Latin America. My first exposure was Mexico, the summer after 9th grade. The subsequent summer I spent two months in Panama in a rural village doing youth and community development and living with a host family. The following summer I did a few weeks in Guatemala working in a soup kitchen for the elderly and homeless and teaching trade skills to elementary kids. I’ve gone to the Dominican Republic just to backpack, and back to Panama twice since my initial visit. My freshman year in college I spent my spring break in Bolivia working on microfinance and trying to understand the impact that groups such as USAID and institutions such as microfinance had on the local economy and culture of Bolivia. (this got really long, haha)
Is there anything else you want to say?I think more than anything I want to inspire and I want to make a positive impact. Part of my reason for choosing this career path was that I thought I would be in a position where I have a large platform to do good and be good. I want to encourage people, no matter what career path they’re considering, to know what they’re doing and why they want to do it. Do whatever you want, just have a solid reason to back it up.

Source: Soompi.comwikipedia

Tuesday, July 16, 2013

Nae Cheossarang!

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Kau juga membuatku bisa mengerti arti kata menyukai..
Memberitaku arti sebuah kata yang bernama cemburu..
Dan kau juga mengajarkan padaku bahwa tak semua hal bisa dimiliki dalam hidup ini..
Dan kau adalah salah satu hal itu, hal yang tak bisa ku miliki hingga kini..
Meski aku memiliki rasa itu, tapi kau tak memiliki rasa itu..
Akupun akhirnya mengerti jika hati tak bisa dipaksakan, karena hati yang berbicara tentang rasa..
Aku mengerti mungkin aku terlalu jauh mengartikan semua moment saat-saat kebersamaan kita..
Dan mungkin juga aku tertalu perasa?Tak ada kata menyesal tentang rasa itu, karena bukan masalah bagiku jika hanya aku!Kau juga mengajarkan sebuah kejujuran dan kedewasaan..
Aku yakin jika sebuah alunan hati yang terus berdetak itu, perlahan-lahan akan menghilang dan kau akan menjadi sebuah kenangan masa lalu..
Meski waktu telah lama berlalu, akupun masih tak bisa berbohong jika masih ada rasa disana..
Masih ada luka yang mengangga..
Terima kasih Nae Cheossarang (cinta pertamaku)!! :B

Wednesday, July 3, 2013

JANGAN REMEHKAN MEMINJAM!

Terinspirasi dari salah satu sub yang di tulis dalam buku "Ranah 3 Warna" karya Ahmad Fuadi yang best seller. saya dapat mengerti bahwa:

  • hidup tidak bisa berdiri sendiri
  • hidup tidak bisa hanya sendirian
  • hidup tidak bisa menjadi orang yang selalu egois
  • hidup tidak bisa selalu merasa diri adalah yang terbaik
  • hidup tidak bisa jika semua orang yang kita anggap baik adalah orang yang terbaik
  • hidup juga tidak bisa selalu berakting seperti malaikat tanpa dosa
TAPI, hidup tidak selamanya bergantung pada orang lain karena ada saat dimana kita harus menunjukkan bahwa kita bisa berdiri sendiri dan hidup dengan cara kita sendiri. seperti halnya anak rantauan yang tinggal ditempat asing dan bertemu juga dengan orang asing.

kadang kala kita harus bersikap sangat baik pada orang yang ada disekeliling kita supaya kita dihargai dan dianggap sebagai orang yang baik, tapi tak selamanya kebaikan bisa membuat kita menjadi orang yang selalu diingat karena kadang kala orang bersikap baik pada kita ketika ia ingin kita membantunya dan kemudian dilupakan. banyak hal yang membuat seseorang ingin menjalin sebuah hubungan persahabatan!
Nasehat berasal dari seorang ulama bernama Ibnu Qudamah Al Maqdisiy:
“Ketahuilah, Sungguh tidaklah pantas seseorang menjadikan semua orang sebagai temannya. Akan tetapi sepantasnya dia memilih orang yang bisa dijadikan sebagai teman, baik dari segi sifatnya, perangainya, ataupun apa saja yang bisa menimbulkan keinginan untuk berteman dengannya. Sifat ataupun perangai tersebut hendaknya sesuai dengan manfaat yang dicari dari hubungan pertemanan. Ada orang yang berteman karena tujuan dunia, seperti karena ingin memanfaatkan harta, kedudukan ataupun hanya sekedar bersenang-senang bersama dan ngobrol bersama, akan tetapi hal ini bukanlah tujuan kita. Ada pula orang yang berteman untuk tujuan agama, dalam hal ini terdapat pula tujuan yang berbeda-beda.   
Di antara mereka ada yang bertujuan dapat memanfaatkan ilmu dan amalnya, ada pula yang ingin mengambil manfaat dari hartanya, dengan tercukupinya kebutuhan ketika berada dalam kesempitan. Secara umum, kesimpulan orang yang bisa dijadikan sebagai teman hendaknya dia mempunyai lima kriteria berikut: Berakal (cerdas), berakhlak baik, tidak fasiq, bukan ahli bid’ah dan tidak rakus terhadap dunia. 
Kecerdasan merupakan modal utama. Tidak ada kebaikan berteman dengan orang yang dungu, karena orang yang dungu terkadang dia ingin menolongmu tapi justru dia malah mencelakakanmu. Akhlak baik, hal ini juga sebuah keharusan. Karena terkadang orang yang cerdas jika ia sedang marah dan emosi dapat dikuasai oleh hawa nafsunya. Maka tidaklah baik berteman dengan orang yang cerdas tapi tidak berakhlak. Sedangkan orang yang fasiq, dia tidaklah mempunyai rasa takut kepada Allah. Dan orang yang tidak mempunyai rasa takut kepada Allah, kamu tidak akan selamat dari tipu dayanya, disamping dia juga tidak dapat dipercaya. Adapun ahli bid’ah, dikhawatirkan dia akan mempengaruhimu dengan jeleknya kebid’ahannya. (Mukhtashor Minhajul Qashidin, 2/ 36-37)
Selama ini aku tidak pernah berpikir seperti itu, aku merasa jika semua orang adalah sama, mereka adalah teman, keluarga, sahabat dan penyemangat.
tapi, sejalannya waktu semuanya berubah. perlahan-lahan, seperti sebuah bungkusan pembalut makanan.
awalnya kita tidak tahu apa isi dari bungkusan itu, tapi ketika bungkusan itu terbuka kita akan tahu isinya dan bisa menyimpulkan apa bungkusan itu bagus atau jelek.
seperti itulah orang yang kita temui, awal pertama kita bertemu dia terbungkus rapi tapi lambat laun bungkusnya terbuka dan kita akan tau seperti apa isinya. begitu banyak macam orang..
entahlah, untuk mengatakan bagaimana jenis dan sifat orang-orang sepertinya sulit untuk diuraikan dengan kata-kata karena mungkin seper menit atau seper detik pikiran seseorang dan pandangan seseorang bisa berubah dengan mudahnya. itulah manusia, manusia ciptaan Allah.SWT yang paling sempurna :)
Judul dari salah satu bab buku tersebut juga membuatku mengerti bahwa persahabatan yang sudah terbina sejak kanak-kanak dan sudah bertahun-tahun bisa terpisah karena satu masalah kecil, yaitu PINJAM!
yah, karena satu benda yang dipinjam kemudian rusak sebuah persabahatan bisa terputus dengan perlahan-lahan meski itu tidak menjadi permusuhan yang dibenci oleh Allah.SWT.
oleh sebab itulah, jangan pernah remehkan kata pinjam/meminjam karena kata itu bisa menjadikan orang yang selama ini kita anggap baik bahkan amat sangat kita anggap baik berubah menjadi rengang.
kata yang di tulis alif didalam buku diarynya dan kata itu yang menjadi motivasi untukku:
diam-diam hatiku berjanji bahwa aku tidak akan pernah lagi meminjam barang orang lain yang bisa merendahkan derajatku. aku ingin tangan diatas, menjadi pihak pemberi. 
nah, apalagi sebuah pertemanan yang hanya seumur jagung(?) mungkin banyak alasan mengapa ia memilih kita menjadi temannya dan mungkin juga banyak alasan mengapa Allah memberikan jalan tersebut pada kita. mungkin Allah ingin kita menjadi dewasa dalam hal itu dan mungkin juga Allah ingin kita bisa mengerti arti sebuah persaudaraan, kesetia kawanan dan inti dari sebuah persahabatan. seperti kata pepatah mengatakan:
bijaklah mencari teman, jika berteman dengan seorang penjual parfum maka kau akan wangi juga, jika kau berteman dengan penjual arang maka kau akan kotor juga.
Dapat disimpulkan bahwa teman tak selalu harus bersama dan bercanda gurau, teman juga tak harus selalu berdamai. mungkin ada waktunya dimana kita harus berpisah untuk lebih menghargai pertemanan dan sekali sekali kita bisa saja bertengkar untuk menguji seberapa kokoh arti sebuah persahanatan! -Ranah 3 Warna
dan hari, aku pun mengerti arti dari kata bercerita! tak selamanya semua yang kita tahu harus diceritakan pada orang lain! cukup untuk kita dan tuhan saja yang tahu.
note:i just write what i get from that's book so  if you're offended about my writing that means you like it :D

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